Love is less than 3

Recently I've been thinking about a couple of stuff for a few months now...so I thought it was be good for me to actually type it all out and share it with you guys. So here comes, TTKYT #2!


When you start dating someone new, one way or another, everyone starts becoming a critic. Most of the time the opinions of another may affect the relationship, be it in a bad or good way. But how do you know if you should actually take their advice or stick to your original skit with the one you're seeing?

First up, your friends.

Let's be straight about this, people like to say that love is blind. Your friends may wonder what do you see in her but say nothing at first. Normally when we're in a relationship, we tend to view your girl/boyfriend only in a positive light. Our friends can help us measure it with an objective yardstick: Your happiness. Can your new partner make you happy? They may be concerned of your happiness! So the next time if your buddies actually start bitching about your partner , ask them why. They might reveal something that's obvious to everyone else.

HOWEVER, there's always a risk that they're jealous. When your friends go all negative on your partner, it may be because that they're just purely jealous. You know, like you've someone whom you can actually spend quality time with during the weekends whereas they're still trying to find someone in the club etc etc. It's actually kinda hard to see and know who's jealous and who's not. So one way to evaluate is to perhaps ask a lot of your friends and see how they view your relationship. Maybe if they're all being negative, it may not be due to jealousy? Try to ask those friends of yours who're not single (as they're most likely not vying for your time nor envious of you for being in a relationship).

Secondly, their friends

They can provide priceless intel for you. If you're friends of your partner's friends, you may actually get some really insightful knowledge. You can also ask them stuff like how you can be a better lover for your partner, so if they actually blab it to your partner, he or she will see it as sweet and not behind the back.

HOWEVER, you will also be prone to sabotage. Their friend's opinion may end up doing things that facilitates the relationship's demise. They may make use of the mistakes you've made in the past or present to  fuel your partner to dump you. How can you tell if you partner's friend is on your side? Just listen. Communication is the key. FOR EG, if you announce that the two of you are getting married, will the friend say " HEY! You guys can save some money " instead of " I'm so happy you two are in love " ? You can be clear that the first one spells danger lol

Lastly, yourself.

Sometimes our worst enemies are ourselves. We tend to over think things and make up stories in our minds that may not be necessarily true. Having any doubts? Clear it with your partner! Don't just keep it to yourself. You'll end up hurting yourself and them too!

There are several other aspects like third parties, your family, your colleagues, even natural disasters (lol) that can affect your relationship with your partner. But I think that one should just be impartial towards the end. After all, a relationship is between two people. Don't let the opinions of another ruin your relationship. 

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